In Memory of John Bothwell
1943 – 1990
They called me to the
phone That day. I felt a chill pervade Into the very depths of
me. I knew, Before the words were
spoken, He is gone. |
You knew him in high school as Jack, a bright star
with so many talents and interests. He
carried them into his life at Syracuse University where we studied, still
together, as twins often do. He was on
the tennis team, played sax with the marching band, was voted president of his
fraternity, and even jumped through hoops as a gymnast and cheerleader. He excelled in his major, civil engineering,
and upon graduation, we separated for the first time, he to Cornell and me to
the University of California – such a distance for two so close!
Jack earned his MBA with honors, and then began his
career doing what he’d always dreamed of doing: building. As a Project Engineer, his colleagues and
clients knew him as John. He
started by building a then-new structure called a condo, in Connecticut where
he hated the cold, bleak winters on the construction site. So he and his wife moved to Florida, to
build sub-divisions, private luxury homes, and then mall complexes. He was active as a swimmer, sailor, and speedboat
racer.
His spirit was strong, but his heart was weak, and
finally one morning he did not awaken.
We had his ashes scattered on the beach he loved so much. His wife and stepson still live in Florida,
in the house he built for them.
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Florence Bothwell Cosby |
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